The Hidden Link Between Mental Load & Low Desire

The Hidden Link Between Mental Load & Low Desire

Feeling disconnected & uninterested in physical intimacy in your long term partnership?

It may not be your libdo, but it might be the weight of mental & emotional load.

I’m SO excited to be teaching a free live workshop on the hidden link between emotional labor + low desire.

We’ll explore:

💭 how emotional labor + over-functioning quietly block intimacy
💭 why high-functioning women often end up carrying it all
💭 how resentment slowly erodes connection
💭 what you can do to begin shifting the dynamic, without blame or burnout

Are you ready to ignite and experience deep intimacy, connect with your spicy desires, and feel deeply cherished in your relationship?

Stop wondering ‘Where did my libido go?’ and start experiencing true full body connection, presence, effortless sensuality and pleasure every single day.

The waitlist for Liberated Love is currently closed, please click to join the waitlist below and you will be notified as soon as it opens up!

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Check out a few FAQS!

Somatic refers to the body, and the somatic healing approach is crafted to bring awareness back to the body. Anchored in emotional and erotic connection and using experiential tools in session, we dive into the core of your challenges, tuning in to your body and inner voice to achieve a deeper self-understanding and allow for self-expression to flourish.
Not quite! Somatic-based coaching offers a unique approach compared to traditional talk therapy. With hands-on tools and personalized homework, our focus is on reconnecting you with your body. We prioritize experiencing and embodying your emotions, over analysis.
I work with individuals, whether single or in partnership, over the age of 18 in many different life stages. I am 2SLGBTQIA+ friendly and work with people of various sexual orientations, genders, age, ability, nationalities, and experience. Any questions, please ask.
Yes, I am accepting new clients at this time.
Please apply to work with me using the form on this page . After applying, please book a free 20-minute consultation before our coaching journey begins. This allows us to connect, and I can gain insight into your current challenges before our initial session. Visit my Services page for details on programs, and to apply!
Privacy and a comfortable space are key for this type of work, do your best to get comfy a few minutes before session and bring your challenges, vulnerability, and an open mind.
Client sessions take place virtually on zoom.
Your safety and comfort are priority number one. We'll never engage in anything you're not comfortable with and we'll openly discuss boundaries, pace, and consent, as these are essential aspects of our practice. To clarify, please note that our sessions are clothes-on at all times, there's no kissing involved, and there won't be any genital touch or focus on achieving orgasm during our sessions.
No, I am not a sex worker, sexologist, sexual surrogate, or otherwise. The work we do together will remain within our established relationship lab and within clear established boundaries.

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your privacy is always respected.

Disclaimer: Steph is not a licensed psychologist, psychiatrist or psychotherapist, nor is she a physician, social worker, or other registered professional. Coaching is not a substitute for medical, legal, financial, business or professional advice.

Awaken Arousal offers sex, relationship and intimacy coaching to ignite connection, passion, and pleasure in your life and relationships!

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